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corvaxgirl) wrote2010-03-08 03:57 pm
corvaxgirl) wrote2010-03-08 03:57 pm
Fight!
Wasband and I used to get *into* it when we would fight. Both of us were very stubborn and hot tempered and generally stressed out which led to *massive* arguing.
I'm now significantly less stressed for a wide array of reasons. I realize however when I fight with J^1, J^2, or L. (. . . .which is rare honestly and even rarer it goes above squabble level), when I am cross with one of them the argument goes like this:
Me to one of the SOs: I'm mad because you did x.
SO in question: I did x because of y.
Me: Still mad because of z.
SO: Oh. Super sorry?
Me: Okay.
[fin]
It ends even *better* when the SO buys takeout so no cooking is needed and make up cuddling can be had!
I'm now significantly less stressed for a wide array of reasons. I realize however when I fight with J^1, J^2, or L. (. . . .which is rare honestly and even rarer it goes above squabble level), when I am cross with one of them the argument goes like this:
Me to one of the SOs: I'm mad because you did x.
SO in question: I did x because of y.
Me: Still mad because of z.
SO: Oh. Super sorry?
Me: Okay.
[fin]
It ends even *better* when the SO buys takeout so no cooking is needed and make up cuddling can be had!